On The Yacht Do I Let Manus And Vina Marry

Caroline Mae

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06-01-2025

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The salty air whipped through my hair as I watched Manus and Vina, silhouetted against the setting sun aboard my yacht. The question hung heavy, unspoken but palpable: Should I, as their friend and, let's be honest, the unwitting host of this impromptu proposal, allow them to get married right here, right now?

The Pros of a Yacht Wedding (on my yacht)

Let's be pragmatic. There are undeniable advantages to a spontaneous, sea-bound nuptial. The romance is undeniable. The backdrop is breathtaking. It's certainly unique. Imagine the Instagram stories!

• Unforgettable setting: The turquoise waters, the gentle rocking of the yacht, the dramatic sunset—it paints a picture of unparalleled beauty. This is a wedding they, and their guests (assuming I'd allow them to invite any), would never forget.
• Intimacy and exclusivity: A yacht wedding keeps the guest list small and manageable, fostering a closer, more intimate atmosphere. This is a huge plus for those who prefer a less formal, more personal celebration.
• Adventure and spontaneity: This is not your average wedding. This is an adventure, a testament to their spontaneous and adventurous spirits—perfectly reflecting the couple themselves.

The Cons of a Yacht Wedding (on my yacht)

However, I'm not just a romantic; I'm also a responsible yacht owner. There are significant logistical hurdles to consider:

• Legal complications: Officiating a wedding requires proper licensing and adherence to legal procedures. Could we even legally get married at sea? This is a very important consideration. Finding a legally qualified officiant at sea would be challenging.
• Emergency preparedness: While my yacht is well-equipped, a medical emergency at sea would be a serious concern. Do we have the necessary resources and proximity to emergency services?
• Guest logistics: Inviting guests would create a whole other set of challenges, including transportation, accommodation, and potentially even sea-sickness. This requires meticulous planning which we clearly haven't had.
• Damage to the yacht: Let's be honest, weddings can be messy. The risk of accidental damage to my yacht is not insignificant.

The Verdict?

Ultimately, the decision hinges on assessing the risks against the rewards. While the romantic allure of a spontaneous yacht wedding is undeniable, the practical and legal ramifications require careful consideration. Manus and Vina’s happiness is important, but so is the safety and well-being of everyone involved, including the protection of my yacht. Perhaps a smaller, more legally sound ceremony ashore would be a better option, followed by a celebratory champagne toast on the yacht at sunset? This might be a more practical and ultimately, safer option for all involved.