Im A Trans Thought You Figured

Cynthia May

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18-01-2025

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It's funny, isn't it? The way assumptions work. Sometimes, people see something – a detail, a gesture, a feeling – and they just know. And sometimes, those assumptions are right. In my case, many people seem to have figured out that I'm transgender.

The Unwritten Clues

I haven't explicitly declared my trans identity to everyone I meet. Yet, many people have somehow pieced it together. I wonder what those pieces were. Was it my voice, sometimes higher, sometimes lower, constantly shifting? Was it the subtle way I carry myself, a certain hesitation in movements that don't quite align with societal expectations? Was it a look in my eyes, a vulnerability that whispers of a journey of self-discovery? Perhaps it's a combination of all these things, a silent narrative unfolding in every interaction.

The Power of Observation (and Assumption)

It's a fascinating reflection on how we perceive and interpret the world around us. We constantly make judgments based on limited information. Sometimes those judgments are accurate; sometimes, they're wildly off the mark. The ability to read unspoken cues is a complex skill, influenced by personal experiences, biases, and preconceived notions. The fact that many have correctly identified my trans identity highlights both the power of observation and the potential pitfalls of relying solely on assumptions.

Beyond the Label

While it’s interesting to consider how others perceive me, I want to emphasize that a label, even a correct one, doesn’t define a person entirely. My identity as a transgender woman is a significant part of who I am, but it’s not the whole story. There's so much more to me than that: my passions, my aspirations, my relationships, my quirks, my laughter. I encourage everyone to look beyond superficial interpretations and to engage with people on a deeper, more meaningful level, getting to know the full complexity of their individual stories.

Embracing the Conversation

Being trans isn't a secret I'm ashamed of. In fact, I find it empowering to have a genuine conversation about this part of my life. My experiences and those of others like me contribute to a wider narrative of understanding and acceptance. While it is humbling to be perceived so clearly, it's also a reminder of the work we all still need to do to create an inclusive and welcoming environment for everyone. This journey of self-discovery continues, and I invite you to walk alongside me, as we all navigate our way toward a better understanding of ourselves and each other.